Feeling Excited
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- Category: Lifestyle/People
- Published: Sunday, 09 November 2014 03:24
- Written by Linda Hayles
by Linda Hayles
Several months ago I allowed a couple of people in my life all the freedom in the world. As a friend or partner... I can be a bit smothering... Yep... I said that. It didn't hurt me or bother me to do that, at all. However, when I allowed them that freedom...
Actually, I allowed myself the freedom of not being the initiator. Their actions didn't match what they
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said. The reason I felt our relationship was important was because I initiated all contact.
Texts, calls... And since then, I have tested this several times because you know the Psychologist in me, needs statistical data. LOL Proven and measurable outcomes... Ahaha... These other people don't value me as I do them.
And in ALL relationships I need to know I'm a priority. Not the most important thing but a priority. I learned that you REALLY DO have to let go of the old to make room for the new...
When you UPLEVEL your thinking, your emotions and your life... Some people just can't go with you... THEY weed themselves out. You wanted to bring them along. But they can't even give you advise to get you where you need to go because THEY HAVE NEVER BEEN THERE themselves.
They were good for you when you were "back there" but not able to take you where you're going now. And that's ok. It doesn't make them bad people at all. Other people will be there for your journey to different levels.